5 Reasons Not to Buy a House and 5 Reasons You Should

Image shows a house with a for sale sign. Text reads: "Should you buy a home? Reasons you should buy a home: You have a secure job; you want to start building equity; you feel ready. Reasons your shouldn't buy a home: You're being pressured by other people; you may move in the near future; you have a lot of debt."

The Balance / Emilie Dunphy

While buying a home is often referred to as the American Dream, if you buy before you are ready, there can be major financial consequences. For one, if you overspend, you can become "house poor," which can lead to you falling short on your regular bills or failing to work toward your long-term financial goals.

It is important to buy a home for the right reasons. You should be sure you are ready and aren’t just buying because it’s you feel like it's what you are "supposed" to do at this time in your life.

Read on for five reasons you should not buy a home, and five reasons why it might be a good next move when trying to decide whether you should rent or buy.

Key Takeaways

  • Buying a home is a major decision and shouldn't happen just because you can qualify for a mortgage or are experiencing external pressure to buy.
  • You also shouldn't buy a home if you may move soon, don't have the income to cover regular maintenance, or have debt that needs to be addressed.
  • Buy a home when you are emotionally and financially ready, want stability, are ready to build equity, and have a secure income.

5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Buy a Home

1. Pressure from Other People

When you reach a certain age or start a family or get married, you may get pressure to buy a home. Family and friends may have expectations that it is time to buy a home and “settle down.”

It is important that you are ready and stable enough to buy a home.


Until you (or you and your spouse, if you are married) feel ready to commit to buying a home, you should not do so, no matter what your friends or family think.

2. You Plan to Move

If you know that your job will transfer you, or you plan to move due to school graduation or another life event, you may be better off renting a home than buying a new house each time you move.

The rule of thumb is to buy a home if you plan on being in the area for at least five years. Owning a home also comes with challenges. For example, if you lose your job, it can be tough to pay your mortgage or move for a new job.

3. You Qualify for a Mortgage

Just because you qualify for a mortgage, that doesn’t mean you are ready to own a home. It is a good idea to address any spending issues or debt before you buy a home. It's also a great idea to set up a budget before you buy a home, so you know how much you can afford.

It’s wise to save up a down payment so you get the best possible mortgage. Even if you can qualify for a mortgage, that does not mean that you are really ready to buy.

4. Debt

If you are carrying large amounts of debt, you should not buy a home. Large amounts of debt can prevent you from paying your mortgage, which will severely damage your credit and financial health.

You also should try to keep your debt-to-income ratio as low as possible, so if you already have a large amount of debt, taking on even more debt in the form of a mortgage may not be wise.

5. Home Repairs and Fixer-Uppers

Another reason to put off buying a home is to save money on the inevitable costs of home maintenance.

If buying a home is stretching your budget to begin with, chances are that you will not be able to cover home repairs and annual maintenance costs. If you travel a lot, it may be difficult to care for the yard throughout the year, and paying someone to do it for you can be a large additional cost that you didn’t plan for.

5 Reasons You Should Buy a Home

1. You Feel Ready

Purchasing a home is a big step. It’s not a purely financial decision, it’s also an emotional one. So it makes sense to be nervous about making such a large purchase, plus taking on the financial responsibility and the cost of upkeep.

However, if you are ready both financially and emotionally, you should take the step to buy a home. A home not only can provide security and a sense of accomplishment, it can also set you up for financial success.

2. Building Equity

One of the best things about owning a home is building equity. Instead of throwing money away on rent each month, you are actually putting it toward your home. In case you wish to sell your home, you'd then able to recoup some of this money to put toward your next one or another big purchase.

Keep in mind that the housing market can be unpredictable, so there is no guarantee that your house will greatly increase in value, though real estate is usually an appreciating asset.


If you are lucky enough to pay off your home, you can sell it and collect a large sum of money. You can take that money and put it toward retirement or use the equity to help you move to a nicer home.

3. You Are Secure in Your Job

If you are fairly secure and certain that you will stay in your current job, it is a good idea to buy a home. Having a steady income will help you stick to your budget, pay your mortgage, and build equity. It will also prevent you from wasting money on rent.

4. Tax Break on Mortgage Interest

During the first few years of paying your mortgage, the majority of your payment will go to paying the interest. You can deduct a percentage of your interest from your taxes, which can help you reduce the overall amount that you pay in taxes each year. It is an additional perk to owning your own home.

5. Stability

Everyone gets to the point where they want stability in their lives. Owning your own home gives you a set neighborhood, schools, and community that you can call your own.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Should I buy a house if interest rates go up?

Don't necessarily abandon your homebuying plans if the interest rate creeps up by a few quarters of a percentage. While it's nice to get the lowest interest rate you can, there are still great opportunities available to those with good credit and a good down payment. What's more, if some buyers drop out of the process due to rising interest rates, and the housing market cools down, you could get a better price on a home.

When is the best time to buy a house?

It depends what matters most to you. The best time to buy a house for the most choices is the summer. The best time price-wise is winter, and the best days are December 26 and Mondays during the winter.

Should I buy a house by the time I'm 30?

There is no "best age" to buy a home. The median age to buy a home is 32, but there are many factors that go into being ready to buy a home, including your income, how long you plan on being in one place, whether you can be approved for a good loan, and whether you're ready for the responsibility and expense of taking care of a home.

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